As I am coming to the end of yet another spin around the sun, I like to find a precious few moments to have a little ponder, usually with a drink in hand - what the liquid is depends on the time of day! My old self would usually create a very long list of what I had not done over the past year and start berating myself for the 'failures'; happily I'm now finding it more useful to reflect on what I have achieved, patting myself on the back, and starting to create a wish list f